What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active and also feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Full of attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Do not look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are in fact out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be different. It is not the method or the wanted sequence of massaging that is crucial, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required.
Tantric massages for that reason often take a very surprising course. A tantric massage does not always have to be "fine", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a long time, of course, however given that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits in advance
Everyone (except when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise needed (check out the short article on protecting boundaries. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Ensure there is an appropriate intake, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about psychological limits, as well as take care for clearness about physical limits. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise totally ok (though hard to deal with oil then). It is likewise a misconception that a tantric massage should be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head. Likewise, in addition, really each cell is sensual, however you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow freely
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body gets involved and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. Naturally, always with regard for (shared) boundaries. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an important role once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ passionate/ love/ development/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely useful, body-oriented motion, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split second you can become enlightened (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various strategies to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose other than self-realization: restoring the natural (overjoyed) state of being.
Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological well-being
Tantra helps you to become more relaxed, more vibrant, more energetic, more caring therefore far more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Since this is exactly what takes place typically: the recipient is enjoying it! Taking pleasure in is fully permitted! A tantra massage is generally great, in some cases tasty. We, therefore, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and reveal that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are many types of massage. Obviously, all massages have certain practices and strategies in common. There is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (aimed at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at healing).
Well since you are really very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is a profession apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive description, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stick out:
Tantra massage pointers-- prior to you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide excellent conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end linked to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is need complimentary, don't push or force anything.
* Open your own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Do not just utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Offer feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, but a tantric massage has no objective.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important this content tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear limits in advance. Our masseuses are primarily really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the desires of the recipient in mind, naturally. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and supply combination moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage occur?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, be in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Offers peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing result. Even though tantra massage is not the exact same as healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover exactly what it is like to love yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which gives a wonderfully liberating and deeply pleased sensation.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard kind, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).